To Blake

I have to say what the family said at the service was beautiful and honored Blake's life perfectly. I wasn't exactly sure how to ask to stand for Blake, and it was my fault for not saying anything, but I wrote a few words Monday morning that I wanted to share with all of you.

Blake Cadkin is my brother. We didn't have the same mother, even though we referred to each other's as "Mom", but we have known each other since before we could truly remember. We grew up together. We have been through everything from learning to ride bikes to driving a car. We started liking girls and later stood as best man at each others weddings. And we knew at some time one of us would have to do what I am doing today. We just hoped it would have been at a much later date.

As much as this is a sad occasion, the point of us being here is to celebrate Blake's life and remember how he touched us all.

Now most of you may not know this, but sometime in my early to mid teens Blake helped me to find a job. More he chose it for me. Professional tackling dummy. Blake took martial arts growing up and many times when I would come over I would walk in and suddenly find myself on the floor.

And have you ever seen Blake eat a pizza. Growing up we would order 2 large pizzas and it was not safe to get anywhere near us.

And that laugh. I don't know if you have all experienced it, but that big boisterous laugh made you laugh even harder.

But most of all, I remember his heart. He had such a big heart and cared deeply about those he loved. I remember how devastated he was when our friend Adam passed away and I take heart knowing that he is somewhere talking to him right now.

I was lucky to have him in my life. He was a great friend and I will miss him dearly.

Todd